Sunday, August 22, 2010

Back to School

You know what's not cheap? College tuition, especially private liberal arts college. I found out recently that my student loans will not cover a decent-sized chunk of my tuition at Marylhurst. I will admit, I allowed myself to freak out about this for a few moments. I even considered chucking the whole plan and going back to PSU or maybe finding an entirely new school to finish my degree. Then last week I met with my academic advisor, one of the heads of the English department, and I knew beyond any doubt that I was finally in the right place.

I arrived a little early for my appointment, having come straight from work and experienced lighter traffic than usual. I waited out the extra time in my car, chatting with William on the phone and watching a man in a blue t-shirt and cutoffs kick around a soccer ball with his young son. This was only my second visit to the Marylhurst campus and I was relieved to find that it still inspired the same excitement and feeling of belonging as the first time. Four o'clock approached and I gathered my paperwork and strode into the lobby of Marian Hall, the home of my advisor's office. There were two other people waiting there, an older gentleman on the phone in the far corner and a man about my age who had clearly made himself at home. He had removed his suit coat and draped it over one of the available chairs. His briefcase was open on one end of the adjoining sofa and he was sprawled in such a way across the remainder of space that the only place left to sit was the final chair, which was awkwardly close to him. I sat, invading his personal bubble as he invaded mine. He didn't look up. He was reading something on his iPad that greatly amused him.

I found myself silently praying to the academic gods that this man not be my advisor, waiting for me in the lobby as he had mentioned in his email. Please let my advisor be someone who isn't so oblivious to the people around him, who wouldn't just sit there engrossed in something else when I'm sitting right in front of him. Let my advisor be someone who doesn't own an iPad (I don't know why...it's just a thing).

Moments later my prayers were answered when my advisor entered the lobby slightly sweaty, out of breath, and with a mop-headed child in tow. I immediately recognized the blue t-shirt and cutoffs. He flashed a delighted grin as he introduced himself and shook my hand, then we headed upstairs. Jay had an easy manner and a sweet confidence that I imagined made him a favorite among the Marylhurst coeds. He was already becoming a favorite of mine.

When we rounded the corner into his office, I was again surprised. Instead of the stuffy leather and dark wood I expected from my years at Wesleyan, Jay's office was an explosion of color. Almost every inch of every surface was covered with child art in some stage of completion. Scattered across the floor were markers, stacks of construction paper, glue and glitter. I picked my way to the office's only chair as Jay's son collapsed in a heap in the corner and resumed work on his latest masterpiece.

Jay and I talked for a bit about my transfer credits and which courses I should take in my first quarter. Since I've already taken almost all of my core classes it sounds like I'm going to be working mainly in my major. This could be a plus, that I won't be distracted by other subjects, but it also means a lot of fairly intense writing classes back to back. If Jay is correct about how easy it is for students to get the classes they want - which is a nice change from PCC where you have to be online immediately after registration opens to get into some of the more popular and required offerings - then I should be able to structure my schedule so I'm not hating life come September.

I left Jay's office with a list of classes that might work, some other new student information, and a business card with his cell number written on it. As I emerged from Marian Hall, content from the meeting and excited about my upcoming classes, one thought played repeatedly in my head: "Hey, it's only money."

note: I did end up deciding to take this semester off for financial reasons. I can't wait until I can finally start my classes at Marylhurst. Hopefully in the winter...

3 comments:

Brian Padian said...

yep 'only money'. i know i've heard that somewhere else :)
xo

Tara said...

Marylhurst is a great school! I loved their campus, though a bit out of the way. I went for an information session there (bawked at the cost of tuition) and decided I would go for my masters at a place like that. Small class sizes, few online classes, a really good learning environment. Now only to float my way through the next 2 terms until my degree....

Tracy said...

Gosh I even found myself liking Jay by the time I finished reading this. Glad you've found the right fit college for you. There's something to the only money thing and it sounds like you feel right about what you're doing.